Must Be A Lot of Naked Boyfriends Out There...

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     Originally wrote and posted this post on August 21sst of 2015 😌

     

     Life happens... and with everything else going on in the world, other things grab our attention.  

     However, some nutty, less serious shtuff, such as this still goes on ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 

     It's a little nuts around here... as I know it is in many families' homes, this time of year!  

     So, I hope this brings some smiles, and maybe a few laughs.  I hope you enjoy a lighter side to end the week.

Have a great rest of your month!  Give $5 or ¯\_(ツ)_/¯  if you enjoy...😉 Just up on the DONATE😁

     Hope & sure you like the cartoons😉😊

     Last holiday season, I was looking online to make up my Christmas list.
     Just as looking up the toys for my daughters'lists, it didn't take long for me to get irritated.

     When looking through different clothing sites, I kept coming across the term, Boyfriend...  

     It is used to describe a style of women's clothing.  Sounds innocuous enough🤔  

     There are:  Boyfriend Blazers; Boyfriend Sweaters; Boyfriend Sweats; and Boyfriend Jeans ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 

      I suspect this term refers to the time in a young woman's life; when after spending a night with a "boyfriend"; ...when she does not wish to go out to breakfast (or lunch) in the previous night's ensemble🤔  

     The obliging beau du jour, lends (wink wink) ~for her a pair of jeans.  Usually these are a pair that have been broken in over at least a couple of years of wear.  They have larger waists, with the same measurement throughout the hips.  Men's jeans are generally not made to "hug curves," because men don't have curves.  Well, not usually...at least not the same curves that women have.  

     So often, when a woman puts on a pair of an Amour's jeans... they're a little slouchy.  If they are so big that they might drop in mid street, an oxford, sweatshirt and or sweater, may also be required.
     These, by definition are boyfriend's clothing.  Or at least the previous night's hook-up's clothes. For some, this is a none too subtle way of letting all know, who's with whom.  At the very least, nothing shouts out what's been goin' on, quite as clear as a coed sitting across from a boy at the local diner, wearing a 3 sizes too big sweatshirt from his Alma Mater.

     So... with this being said, if the average male of 20 something cannot fit into an item of clothing,  such as the items below, THEY REALLY SHOULD NOT USE THE TERM BOYFRIEND.
 

Just to Let You Know...

      More PHOTOS have been added to MY PHOTOS! 

      As I have mentioned before, if you're on your mobile phone, go down toward the bottom of the primary Sadie's Gathering page, and tap on, "View web version" then you'll see on the left side, "My Photos" with a photo of sun shades.

     I took these three cloud photos, this year... though I have lots of other cloud photos.  May do a picture book at some point😊

     And you know the contribution tab, the DONATE tab, is over here to the right😉 ~>

    Hope you're all doing well, along with your loved ones! 

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Happy Birthday to My Darlin!

 

     In honor of my oldest daughter, turning 21 today! 

     I'd like to share what I've learned thus far from being a parent!  Originally posted this on 9/11/2015, when my darlin was 11.

     Now, as I've told relatively new parents; you're kids are kids for about 10 years... then... when their bodies begin to change in many different ways... they'll remind you of your teen years... and they will be more like roomies(roommates), than your children.

     When I was a teen, my mom told me, my hormones would even out, in around my mid 20's; and I would not view anything as dramatically terrible, as I did when I was a teen.  

     I remember rolling my eyes to her, whenever she mentioned that point ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 

     Then, I moved to Chicago, in '91, after I graduated from WVU.

      I worked at a Futon Store, for a couple of years and made a couple of friends there.  

     Also, when I sold a futon to a woman, who'd just graduated and moved from Boston; and she lived around the corner from my studio apartment; we became friends!  We were roommates for a few years.  

     Then once, while in our first apartment; I'd gone out with a nice young man, named Pete; he took me out to dinner and we had a fun evening!  When he dropped me off, we kissed for the first time; and he said he'd call me, and we'd go out again!  I thought then we'd be dating for a good bit. 

     Then a couple of weeks later, my roomie asked if I was going to go out again with that hot guy; and she asked, 'What is his name?'

     So, this is what I replied: "Pete, is the name of that guy I went out with.  He said he'd call me, and we'd go out again.  Yet... since it's been 2 or 3 weeks... I guess he either lost it, or tossed my phone...so, no more time with Pete..."

     "Oh my God!  So sorry... "

     And I said, "Who gives a sh*t... there's so many other hot guys in Chicago!"  Then we laughed! 

     Then I called my mom; told her about it; told her "YOU"RE RIGHT!!! I DON'T GIVE A SH*T" and Mom laughed!  

     Then I apologized for all the fits I through as a teen; and she told me, 'Babe, you were easy...' and I replied, "May be because I was an only child," ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

     Since this is 9/11; when this darlin was younger, we told her, "You've changed one of the worst days... INTO THE BEST!!!"

     If you'd like to read more of the original post, I wrote when my darlin was 11: What I've Learned...!

    Thank you to all who have contributed! 

     Since I'm still working on writing, even here on my blog, Sadie's Gathering; please keep giving$ 😉😊

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     If you're on your mobile phone, please go down towards the bottom of the page, and tap the red "View Web Version"😉😊

     When you do that, you'll see a lot more of my accomplishments 😁

     Reposting this post, because as I know I've stated on a post before, nobody is perfect ... and that certainly includes me!  

    Last night, I had a dream with a pseudo, Steve Martin… and when I woke up, I was wondering why I'd had that dream... 

     Then, I remembered... back in 1996; the reason I agreed to go into management, was because I had $10K with credit card debt.

     So, within the first year, I paid it off;~and since I didn’t hear any trumpets celebrating I was debt free~ 😒 there was a bit of time, I just regretted going into management.  

     Since I'd come to Chicago to be a writer; and a great friend, who I had a crush on for over a year; then started dating another woman, who was a server in our restaurant.  For quite a bit, I was bummed.  Even in the winter, I was terribly cold, even with a hot shower.  So, in January of 1997, I went to a tanning salon. 

     Then in May '97; we hired a few men and six months later one asked me out and thus, we’ve been together for 28 years!

     

     As I say, everyone has different perceptions and everybody’s perceptions change, from time to time. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 

      Since I'll even use credit cards to contribute on my blog to help pay my attorney; hope all will end up totally fine.

     Just since I’ve written so much, and done so much over the years; I still would greatly appreciate your contribution even just $5, $10, or whatever dollars on your credit card; would be totally appreciated!  Also, if you are to do a little bit more; that would be highly appreciated too!

      As I've said so many times; tomorrow is nobody’s promise...we need to keep our sense of humor and look on the bright side; take good care of ourselves and our loved ones. 

     Still hope for contributions, and doubt you'd want the long info.  As I've let some folks know; several have gone through the same drama. 

     

     Regardless of whoever you are, I greatly appreciate your giving!

     Just as I know, I really know; every one of you... has ...issues ¯\_(ツ)_/¯  along with every other ... so just $5, $10, $20 per contribution, will be fine, and I will be SO GRATEFUL!  

     

     As I've told several, I'm not the most tech savvy... so fyi~

       Tap the Donate tab, then it goes to a PayPal page...

  

 Where the $0 is, is where you put the amount. 

Considering how many have stopped by, $5 per view, would be good! 

Then "Donate" on PayPal or your credit card

     Thank you!  Hope you are taking good care of yourself and all your loved ones!  

I've taken 4000+ Cloud photos...May do a picture book😉

   

     Just in case you'd like to read a bit more...

     Considering I have been writing, poems, stories, ever since I was very young...

Read This Before Your Next Restaurant Visit!

   

    With holidays coming and going, I'm reposting, a post I wrote in 2013, for the NAT'L WAITERS & WAITRESSES DAY!
     

     This new post, features a few more points, as well as more cartoons from my husband, Davis Jaye.  

      If you would like to contact him for a freelance job, click on his name above, and you will be whisked away to his online portfolio.  It's extensive!  

       If you go to his online portfolio, you'll see the great illustrations of folks~of all ages; great portraits of homes; and so much more.  He can do an amazing range!

 

     Davis , is a great multitalented artist and a great listener, to folks that have hired him for freelance art and for acting!  He's on IMDB; if you'd like to see his acting history, click on either Davis or IMDB😊

    

     Also, check out his cartoon website, The Squirrel's Nest.😁😂😉 It is HILARIOUS!!!  He also has a DONATE tab on his cartoon website;  The Squirrel's Nest.  Since he's drawn 1000 cartoons on that sight, he truly earns, and should receive compensation.  Just like the DONATE tab, I have on the upper, right side, above the Sadie Project! 

     He's obviously a multitalented artist!

      As some know, we met when I was managing a great, fun, restaurant, and he was one who was hired in May of 1997.  Then 6 months later, he asked me out, I stated I'd signed a non fraternization clause; so we just did a lot of holiday shopping, movie watching, and so much as friends!  

     Long story short; our first kiss was my birthday (day after Christmas) and we still worked together; kept down low; then he transferred to another of the company's great restaurants!  Then we came out!  He moved to Los Angeles in 2000; proposed to me in November 2001; then I moved to Los Angeles in 2002, and we married in West Virginia that year!  Will mention more later on...

   

      Now, onto the restaurant biz...

For Labor Day: Tallywackers UPDATE! Originally Written in '15, Now Closed ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Visit Tallywackers' Site

     Well, it's Friday, and usually I like to end the week on a lighter note.  Such a funny post to repost😉 My DONATE tab is there->

     A while back I wrote a bit about, Tallywackers, a soon to be opening attempt at an all-male Hooter's, in Dallas, TX.

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